Ask A Sex Worker- Having Trouble Getting Off?

[Hobby]

[Tuscano]

She must be speaking to women. OF men she is clueless...

[zoezane]

She must be speaking to women. OF men she is clueless...

I'm a energy facilitator for Psych-K.com
Men from 35-50 can check their hormonal levels on-line.  Must be done by age 50.  A very close male friend did it and worked.  Stress is the number on killer of the hardon.  And, if men do drugs it makes it worse.  It's possible some men get negative beliefs about sex like this one:  Sex gets me in trouble.  BUT, it can all be cleared and reversed. A new statement can be downloaded to the brain.

[DoctorTaco]

Sooooo many things can hinder a 40+ yo man's ability to climax. The video young gal's tips about grip and excessive visual porn stimulation are well documented. Sadly, as we get older and have more medical issues the harder (no pun intended) it can be to reach orgasm. Rx drugs can have a negative effect as well. Getting old sucks!

[HighStepper]

Yes DoctorTaco, for a number of the reasons you state, male ejaculation with orgasm become more difficult and often just doesn't happen. As our body physiology has changed we should consider a change in our mental attitude and sexual perspective.

Perhaps we can learn from women on ways to approach the sexual experience. Unlike men orgasm is not the only goal. While most women love to orgasm they understand that there are times that they don't. They use terms like feeling content. They like the closeness of making love. They like the feeling of being desired and appreciated.

As an older man, focus on the journey rather than the destination. Enjoy the sensuous touches and caresses. Let orgasm, if it occurs, come as a pleasant surprise.

As an 80 year old man I'm very appreciative to be able to be with a young hot 20-30 something woman.  To look at her sexy body, kiss her, touch her and engage in sexy fun. I don't need to cum with her to have enjoyed being with her. However, often providers think it is there job to make a man cum. They can take it personally if you don't......like something is wrong with them. So you have to assure them that you love being with them and they did not do anything wrong.

Mature, experienced providers, mid forties through 50's can have a better understanding of how to meet the needs of an older man. While they may not have Playboy Playmate bodies, there are many that are fit with a sexy body. Be open to approaching sex with a new attitude. Be open to little techniques she may use, like a gentle finger inserted in that forbidden place.

[Hobby]

Heart Disease can really screw up the works... An early sign of HD is ED... So if you experience not getting it up make sure you get the pump checked... 

[zoezane]

Heart Disease can really screw up the works... An early sign of HD is ED... So if you experience not getting it up make sure you get the pump checked... 

Societies medical beliefs, we can't fix ourselves is not correct.  We've been told doctors know more then our own research.
Brainwashed, as we age their is no hope.  I'm hear to say they are wrong.  Dr Joe Dispenza (hit by car, in 6 weeks healed his back or would of been paralyzed for life), Dr Berg Healthy Keto (stop inflammation, it's the number one killer of the human body).  UMZU.COM

I'm here to tell you that male hormones can be fixed.  Hormones affect the whole body, heart attacks.  Emotion and body code by Dr. Bradley Nelson, heart walls and invisible trapped emotions can distort the heart.  When the heart is cleared no heart attacks. 

[zep]

My issue is not getting off enough.  My wallet won't allow me to see a lady every day... Guests are not allowed to view images in posts, please Register or Login

[Romanticlover]

Diet and lifestyle is very important, medical studies have shown:
Zinc increases sperm count and sex drive
Coffee is a stimulant and relaxes blood vessels which increases blood flow, a recent study showed people who drink 2-4 cups a day live longer
Tea is another blood vessel relaxer, regular tea drinkers live longer
Tobacco and marijuana is bad for men, it restricts blood flow and makes you limp
A baby aspirin a day will increase blood flow and less likely to have a heart attack or stroke
Stress makes you limp and shortens your life