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Wherever you find your escort, research her. Does she have a website, does she have ads going back at least 6 months, does she have reviews (although some escorts do not like being reviewed)? Google her name and phone number or email before contacting her. Also expect her to want to screen you for her own safety; be respectful and provide whatever info she requires.
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Be on time, or call if you will be more than 10 minutes late. Unless you are giving notice of a time change well in advance, expect to pay for the time you missed. If your 60 minute date was supposed to start at 7 and you get there at 7:15, STILL LEAVE AT 8. Please respect the escort's time and schedule, and don't linger. Even if the escort genuinely enjoyed the time with you, it is annoying and awkward if you overstay. If you want more time, ask and if she says yes, expect to pay for it at the rate previously discussed.
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Know what's on menu in advance and do not deviate from it. Escorts use code words like, CIM, greek, GFE, PSE... google these before you call or email.
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ever ever discuss sexual acts or money in person. For your own safety! If it is a sting, they will try to get you to say what you are there for out loud. When in doubt, kiss the girl or ask her to get more comfortable. If she complies, green light!
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Money first always! If you must refer to it at any time, call it a gift. Do not hand the money directly to her, set it down where she can see it, or wherever you were told to beforehand, (often by the sink in the bathroom).
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Be nice, treat her like a lady, and be respectful. She is a real person, you don't need to be intimidated and you certainly shouldn't feel superior either.
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Don't feel like you need to blow her mind sexually. While noble, and very sweet, she is there for you. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her, this often ends in not being able to finish at all. Which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, but no pressure here either.
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Try to read her cues. She is a real woman with real likes and dislikes. Not everyone wants to be talked dirty to, or smash-cuddled post coitus. Some might love it though!
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She will not be offended if you need to leave right after. Whether you need to get back to work, or just aren't into idle chit-chat and cuddling, do your thing. She will enjoy the extra down-time. If you have a genuine rapport or chemistry, or if you are just enjoying the company and a break from real life, then stay the whole time! She will be happy either way.
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Tip! Always tip. No one care if it's $20 or $200, tip your escort. Unless she was terrible. Tipping lets the woman know that you liked her and that you appreciate her time and effort. This is especially important if you want to see the escort again. If you went for a twofer, then tip extra well!
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Ask her if she would like to be reviewed. If yes, keep it simple, and do not fabricate. If you say she did something that she didn't, other clients may expect that same service in the future.
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Always be clean. Very, very clean. If you just came from work or whatever, take a quick shower at the location. You don't want to be known as the 'Smegma-Guy'.
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Bring wine or a gift. Escorts love this and you will go right to the front of the line, hopefully. Wine can help to get you both relaxed and comfortable, and is a good social lubricant when you have to make all the magic happen in an hour or two. You can ask in advance what she likes, and don't forget the glasses! Gift certificates are always a safe bet if you want to bring a gift, stores like Amazon, Victoria's Secret, Bath and Body, etc. If you know the escort well, you may want to give her more personalized gifts like lingerie, jewelry, and perfume.
Bonus points if you buy her drinks/take her to dinner first, (while she is being compensated for her time at her usual rate). If you really enjoy her company and can afford to do this, this is the best way to make her feel special. Remember she is on the clock though, and do not ever ask her to meet for free. That is a line neither of you should cross.
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I like all of that even though most don't tip I appreciate the ones that do and keep it in mind for the next visit 😛😛
Quote from: superhead on Jun 05, 2022, 07:15 PMI like all of that even though most don't tip I appreciate the ones that do and keep it in mind for the next visit 😛😛
I always tipped but do we really need to? I mean I can understand a tip required if it is an agency girl she only gets a percentage right? Now independent girls get 100% owner-operator and employee. When I had a service company as sole owner and employee I never got a tip. I never expected a tip because my profit was built into what I charged. So does it really matter to an independent if she is tipped especially if the rate is 400 or 600 per hour?
Geez no one said any thing about having to cause ya don't
But is it nice of course I mean do you too valet or at restaurants kinda tacky not too just saying this is a more personal service so why not. I tip everyone from housekeeping to valet to restaurants but that's just how I am I'm nice like that it's called karma comes back around
Quote from: superhead on Jun 05, 2022, 10:35 PMGeez no one said any thing about having to cause ya don't
But is it nice of course I mean do you too valet or at restaurants kinda tacky not too just saying this is a more personal service so why not. I tip everyone from housekeeping to valet to restaurants but that's just how I am I'm nice like that it's called karma comes back around
Sure I do too because they work for someone. I don't tip the hotel itself when I check out... If the owner of a hair salon happens to do your hair do you tip her or him? We tend to tip the employees for good service and not the owners. Is my thinking wrong about this?
Hobby I'm confused you were doing soo good at giving advice, I was like wow I like him lol. Then superheated mentioned tipping and then you asked if you really needed to? 🤣 I'm like your the one who mentioned it lol. Very few tip, but the ones that do..... you better believe I remember that and they get special notes in my book. They also get seen before others and at the end of the day it just feels good. Life us all about bringing smiles to people's face. Do you have to tip? Of course not, could you though?
Upfront, I appreciate what providers do for us and I have always provided a 20% tip at the time I place my "gift" on the designated spot. Following our rendezvous, if I feel the service was genuine and fun was had, then I'll often add to the gift. If it was not a memorable experience, I thank her for seeing me and just leave, no additional tip. These ladies are providing me a service and I think that tipping is always appropriate.
Quote from: Utrrose on Jun 06, 2022, 12:15 AMHobby I'm confused you were doing soo good at giving advice, I was like wow I like him lol. Then superheated mentioned tipping and then you asked if you really needed to? 🤣 I'm like your the one who mentioned it lol. Very few tip, but the ones that do..... you better believe I remember that and they get special notes in my book. They also get seen before others and at the end of the day it just feels good. Life us all about bringing smiles to people's face. Do you have to tip? Of course not, could you though?
Quote from: ilickalot53 on Jun 06, 2022, 06:17 AMUpfront, I appreciate what providers do for us and I have always provided a 20% tip at the time I place my "gift" on the designated spot. Following our rendezvous, if I feel the service was genuine and fun was had, then I'll often add to the gift. If it was not a memorable experience, I thank her for seeing me and just leave, no additional tip. These ladies are providing me a service and I think that tipping is always appropriate.
That's just it, if hobbyists don't have a good time they probably won't repeat and may tell others about their experience. I would think building up a good regulars base, tip or no tip, might be more important than expecting to be tipped. Tipping providers is not the same as tipping your waitress. Both are expected to give great service only one is paid minimum wage while the other sets her own wage. I will tip when the service is more than I expected.
Personally I think guys a delusional about how much providers make. When you consider the overhead especially if they travel which most do.
There's the higher end escorts that are the exception that's because they have a way better clientele (rich).
Do you have to tip of course not is it appreciated always. I'm just saying most don't good time or not I have regulars that have NEVER tipped I don't hold it against them my service is the same.
Quote from: superhead on Jun 06, 2022, 09:49 AMPersonally I think guys a delusional about how much providers make. When you consider the overhead especially if they travel which most do.
There's the higher end escorts that are the exception that's because they have a way better clientele (rich).
Do you have to tip of course not is it appreciated always. I'm just saying most don't good time or not I have regulars that have NEVER tipped I don't hold it against them my service is the same.
I was questioning the author's comment in the article to always leave a tip! I don't think leaving a tip is make or break of being the favorite. I think providers have lots of favorites that come see her.
Tipping and gift giving are delicate subjects. I'm a firm believer that the provider will remember you if you leave her with a gift. I often give a nice bottle of wine, or if they list something in their ad like certain chocolate. I have also purchased lingerie for ladies who I am seeing again and again. Case in point: I recently reached out to a provider on social media who I saw almost three years ago. She recalled my username but asked how she might remember me. I mentioned my tattoo, and she said, "And you gave me a bottle of wine."
Personally, I would reframe from gifting food, candy drink etc. These items can be laced with something and many providers say thank you and then toss it in the trash not wanting to take the chance on a stranger. I suggest if you gift to gift something not consumable.
That is why I give Lingerie To the providers I see.
Quote from: citylyts on Jun 06, 2022, 11:49 AMThat is why I give Lingerie To the providers I see.
That's perfect, if they don't like the lingerie they can re gift...
TIPPING
Customs/traditions/etiquette change over time and vary by culture.
There was a time when tipping the owner/proprietor of a restaurant was disrespectful to their status as the owner.
Certainly the wait staff, as tips was the biggest part of their income.
In the area of personal/professional services, I tip my barber, I tip my manicurist, I don't tip my doctor, I don't tip my lawyer.
Escorts provide a personal/professional service. Actually I pay them more than I pay my doctor or lawyer.
Women working for a "house" I always tipped. Women who are the "owners" of their business no tip.
On the flip side I never negotiate down their donation.
If they are not clock watchers and we go over our session time, I will compensate them for the extra time
If it is an outcall I pay all hotel costs. If she needs a ride I will pay for the Uber/Lyft.
GIFTING
To give a gift there should be enough knowledge about the lady as to what might put a smile on her face.
Such as a recently released CD by her favorite musical group.
Showing up with a bouquet of flowers to her incall in an apartment building could be a violation of discretion.
With a regular I might take her shopping for clothes and/or toys, so she gets what she really likes.
Tipping... I rarely tip. If we go over time certainly! Gifts? Shopping trips! I love putting a smile on a FAV's face.
I have had the experience of taking a gal shopping and her charging for "her" time. Never saw her again. She was focused on "her time", in cash. And that was not a one-time experience, I have had the same experience with several providers. Which I also never saw again.
IMO everyone should do what they want or what works for them.
I hate rules made by others for me.
I like doing things my way, being creative, and not just following everyone else, just because they do it.
That said I do most [but not all] of the guidelines in the original post and have been told many times I'm a favorite client.
I used to give gifts. I rarely do now unless I know someone well and the gift is special. Flowers? What if she is allergic? Wine? What if she does not drink? Chocolate? What if she hates it or is trying to limit eating sweets? Also things like lingerie, flowers, wine, chocolate, vibrators, gift cards, and so on are boring as fuck and have been given a million times as gifts.
I have never tipped right after a session but I have given out what I call bonuses [which are cash] for various reasons if I feel it's deserved or if I am in a mood to. So I guess that's a tip but it's not given in the traditional way or at any set amount or percentage and only given if someone is a regular not after a first date.
All during the pandemic, I had a regular make sure I had delicious food etc. He gave me so much, I shared it with my neighbors down the hall. I saw his intention and a good one. There is so much abundance out there. Thank you Mr. B for thinking of me. Such kindness. 8)
Quote from: Hobby on Jun 06, 2022, 12:04 PMThat's perfect, if they don't like the lingerie they can re gift...
I love lingerie Hobby. It's the intention. I get tips all the time because Zoe Zane is fun sexy educated. I always tip people if they have value. I offer perks to clients that makes them ALL smile ;)
I know RBSEXYKITTY always remember when you leave a tip in the jar ! I think tipping is a good idea when it deserving !