Hey everyone I'm hosting another gathering September 17th on Saterday in Sunnyvale starting at 6pm. Please contact me through text or my chatroom to be added to the rsvp list. Last one was Epic and holy gaucomole we had a crazy good time. Love you all adios
I'll be out of the country then.
Is that what you always say lol?
Are you looking to have it at the same place as the one in July?
Yes, the last party as you say, was EPIC.
Yes Highstepper exactly the same as last time. Btw I love u and your face 💓
Quote from: Utrrose on Jul 31, 2022, 04:29 PMYes Highstepper exactly the same as last time. Btw I love u and your face 💓
My face is at your service. :-*
I will try to make it but I can't confirm until September. 😘
@Rosalyn I travel about 4-6 months a year which means I may be out of town 33-50% of the time so yeh I might be saying I'm gone 33-50% of the time, especially as I hope to catch up on time I lost early in pandemic.
Dogwalker, if your heart is happy that's all that matters. But ty for clarification because i was pondering lol
Well I see, Selena and I got our party stepped on. I thought there were unwritten rules against this sort of thing.
Shellback I'm sorry you feel that way, could you please explain why you think that? Serena just attended the last party and we had a lovely time hun. If you don't communicate with me how would I know that I stepped on ya. I'm a great listener with a big heart. In fact I just moved the party to a different date in respect for sexykittys Halloween party. I'm all about sharing the love. I'm just trying to bring South Bay some good times is all.
Wait selena or Serena? See I have no idea what's going on.
Please text me if you would care to discuss, I'm definitely not trying to step on toesies
I'm referring to Selena, AKA Collegecoed. I don't want to turn this into a bunch of drama. You're last event was great and I know we can't compete. I'm happy to see the social scene get rolling again. But I just couldn't let this slide, since we did post our even first. But it's ok. Like I said, not looking for unnecessary drama.
Oh Mr shell I didn't even see your event posted I swear on a stack of Bibles.
Oh shit bricks I just saw your party post! No wonder why your upset hun, I promise I had no idea. I'm kinda stuck in a shitty situation because I know personally folks have already bought plane tickets and reserved rooms at hotel. I would had changed it in a heart babe but now I'm stuck and don't know what to do. Can I text you?
I seriously feel like a asshole I'm so sorry
Rosalyn, We can see your intentions are pure with no intent to harm. Well, at least I can see it👀. I'm sure you'll do better next time.
Love your energy. ALWAYS have.
✌️🐻💖
It's an honest mistake Rose, I appreciate you meant no disrespect. Your last party was great and I look forward to this one. I appreciate that some people have already made special arrangements to attend this event in Sunnyvale on Sept 17 and the response to Selena and I's event has been a bit slow. I'm fine with rescheduling. I just thought something should be said so this doesn't happen again is all.
Maybe I can mediate although I'll probably get my head shoved up my ass instead, which I am fine with. This has happened before. What I said before is it might be a lot different if the mixers were being held close to each other like in what is considered the "same" geographic area. In this case they really are not. How many would actually attend mixers on the peninsula of the bay area and in the CV. They at least a 2 hour drive apart on the best traffic days. I probably would not. So.....while there may be some overlap in potential attendees, how much is there.....in reality? A few people....and I mean a FEW.....used to "drive all over hell" going to every mixer there was. Do they still? I don't.
I know some will disagree with me but I feel quality not quantity of attendees is what measures success of a mixer. If so, then so what if a few less attend. Devotees to one of the other will go to whatever they prefer.
Not sure what the solution is moving forward. Moving forward is best now because the current situation is what it is unless one party reschedules which is typically a pain in the ass.
Strictly speaking shellback is correct about timing. He posted his announcement July 18 in this forum which is where all parties should be posted in order to avoid conflict. Rosalyn posted her announcement July 30, 2 weeks later. That said, it is an UNWRITTEN rule, not a set in stone rule that mixers should be a certain time apart. I suppose any host can do what they want.....who can stop them?
I hope y'all can work something out though because drama SUCKS! I'll be in Fez, Morocco that day so I'm hosting a mixer there if anyone can make it....lmfao. All date shakes and honey wine are on me.
Quote from: dogwalker on Aug 04, 2022, 06:59 PMMaybe I can mediate although I'll probably get my head shoved up my ass instead, which I am fine with. This has happened before. What I said before is it might be a lot different if the mixers were being held close to each other like in what is considered the "same" geographic area. In this case they really are not. How many would actually attend mixers on the peninsula of the bay area and in the CV. They at least a 2 hour drive apart on the best traffic days. I probably would not. So.....while there may be some overlap in potential attendees, how much is there.....in reality? A few people....and I mean a FEW.....used to "drive all over hell" going to every mixer there was. Do they still? I don't.
I know some will disagree with me but I feel quality not quantity of attendees is what measures success of a mixer. If so, then so what if a few less attend. Devotees to one of the other will go to whatever they prefer.
Not sure what the solution is moving forward. Moving forward is best now because the current situation is what it is unless one party reschedules which is typically a pain in the ass.
Strictly speaking shellback is correct about timing. He posted his announcement July 18 in this forum which is where all parties should be posted in order to avoid conflict. Rosalyn posted her announcement July 30, 2 weeks later. That said, it is an UNWRITTEN rule, not a set in stone rule that mixers should be a certain time apart. I suppose any host can do what they want.....who can stop them?
I hope y'all can work something out though because drama SUCKS! I'll be in Fez, Morocco that day so I'm hosting a mixer there if anyone can make it....lmfao. All date shakes and honey wine are on me.
Address, please!! In Morocco...lol
It will not happen again, this is definitely a learning lesson and will check forums for upcoming events. I ❤️ all you guys
Quote from: Utrrose on Aug 04, 2022, 08:39 PMIt will not happen again, this is definitely a learning lesson and will check forums for upcoming events. I ❤️ all you guys
It happens...let it roll.
and in this case, the geography makes it less of a problem.
And making it about me! Will
Woody be there??? He owes me!!!
The party/event scene is starting to take off again after a long lull due to Covid.
At one time in the distant past, lol, we had a private forum for people that were Event Hosts,
so that they could coordinate to avoid conflicting dates. Perhaps that is something to explore here.
You cannot blame someone for not following an "unwritten" rule. Most of the people that followed that unwritten rule
have been gone for a long time, i.e. Counsel, Shadow, Ex-wifey, Fencer, etc.
I think that's a really great idea highstepper! 💡 that would be very helpful. Highstepper and tuscano can I add you to the rsvp list? I bet woody will be there I have a pretty good feeling😉
Yes. Please add me to the RSVP list.
Rsvp for this event.
Alrighty we are at 56 rsvps I look foward to another yourgirlforhire after party lol
I'd like to RSVP myself and Penny Holloway.
We should all try to get along.....IF we are a community.
Quote from: Utrrose on Aug 14, 2022, 12:27 AMAlrighty we are at 56 rsvps I look foward to another yourgirlforhire after party lol
lord have mercy and pray for us all the next day hahahahah
I am out :o. I will be in Morocco! @ DW. hahaha...
No, I will actually be in SoCal. And sadly for me! You all will be having a lot more fun than I am likely to have. :(
Quote from: yourgirlforhire on Aug 18, 2022, 02:53 PMlord have mercy and pray for us all the next day hahahahah
I feel your vibs for a teasing rubbing sliding good time
@yourgirlforhire xo Zoe Zane
@zoezane are you coming to the party? Everyone would love to see you
Hey everyone, happy September 1st😘. Just a reminder to RSVP if you have not yet, we have 65 rsvps so far. Be there or be square baby, don't forget to hydrate🙂
Two more days 70 Rsvps, good food, live dj , pool, dancing, hugs in love 🥰 see you all soon in Sunnyvale
Hello everyone .... It's been so long I'm so excited to see some old friends and meet new ones 🤍🤍
Penny Hollaway
Quote from: Penny Hollaway on Sep 17, 2022, 12:32 PMHello everyone .... It's been so long I'm so excited to see some old friends and meet new ones 🤍🤍
Penny Hollaway
Damn, I wanna go just to see Penny again... but my family comes first sadly.
Quote from: thaikhan on Sep 17, 2022, 12:36 PMDamn, I wanna go just to see Penny again... but my family comes first sadly.
I wish you were coming MAJOR BUMMER!
Miss you bunches 🤍
Penny Hollaway
I'm still pretty hung over at 11pm the next day lol. Thank you everyone who showed up and let me violate them on the dance floor. I'm dying right now